Is it Good or Bad?

              I'll never forget what my father always told me " do not be selfish.." I have live my life being friendly and unselfish to others. Often I'll think what's best for the others than for myself, Everytime I saw someone who needs my help I lend them my hand,but now I realize being unselfish is not good at all times.. To gave someone the thing that he like, I'll sacrifice my allowance. To help them from their financial problems I lend them my savings and now, there's none left for me.

         I feel happy because I had helped them but in return I really felt pity for myself. Pity because I realized that I always think about them not thinking about myself. But then in the end I still wanted to help them.. :(